Are there really steps or things to do to move on? Have you ever been curious on how you surpassed or how we surpassed those moments that we felt we cannot move on? Also, when do we know when to start moving on?
Everything connected to “LOVE” is really mystery to all of us. We just learn and accept as day goes by. As other people say, when you love someone, you should take a risk. When there is love, there is hate or pain.
I have been to several relationship that I shared my moments with my exes with my readers and followers. I am always thankful how you guys are happy whenever I am happy too. I really got a supportive community out there, huh? But yea, aside from sharing the sweet moments, I shared with you all my heartbreaking moments and the process of how I move on.
But the real question is, what are the things I do to move on – behind the camera and contents I created?
I stream online games on Twitch.
Most of the time, online games are the one who healed me completely. Online gaming is my hobby and where I feel safe and where I think I can calm myself from all the pain. What helps me more is whenever I call my online game friends and have a chit-chat on Discord, it helps me to forget the pain or sometimes, they help me release the pain by listening to what I want to express.
Online gaming makes the time run faster for me. A 4-hour stream feels like a 10-minute conversation only. It also helps me to meet new people and follower that sooner or later will be my close friend.
I eat alone in a samgyupsal restaurant or I invite my closest friends or my little brother.
Eating alone gives me space to think how beautiful being single is sometimes. Sometimes, I invite my little brother and open up with him on how the pain really hurts or sometimes my brother would ask for a soju night and just eat on any buffet restaurant because he knows that I love to eat. Well, I know you all know that I love to eat. That is where we all started here in Blogging world.
I am just so thankful that I have my little brother to open up my pain. Kudos to all loving brothers or sisters out there! I will always owe him one for any instance I feel lonely, he will always reach out to me.
I date my closest friends.
Well, I know I have not introduced Aya and Sig to all of you. They are the people I treasure the most. Wonderful people who always got my back and who bullies me straightly but will always be there when I am down and in trouble or in pain. I have been friends with them since 2016 as far as I remember. Thankful that even if we grew apart and focused on our careers on our own, we never forget to check up on each other. May we be single or in a relationship.
Having real and true friends will always help you heal faster and move on faster. They will help and share the pain and will wipe your tears with laughter. With Aya and Sig, I think God gave them to me because God knows for any instance that I feel alone. They are there to make me realize that I do not need anyone to be happy and proud. That I can be appreciated for who I am. That I am lucky to have them and that I am still blessed amidst the heartaches from the past.
Whenever Aya and Sig is not available, I still have the sweet couple – Dee and Mark. Who are my dancer friends and Valo-league. Most of the time, they made me realize that relationship is not all about the sweet moments, it is also about how you stick and stay together through dull moments through hardships in career growth they support each other. What flutters me is that even they are a couple, I am thankful to how supportive they are whenever I needed them. God, I always thank you thousand times for giving me solid and real friends like them. May You Bless them with all Your might! Insert Dwyn who we seldom bond with due to proximity, but always thankful of how supportive he is to everyone of us!
I drink coffee and have random deep talks with Aya.
For some random realization, it made us realize that it felt we are twins in terms of life experiences, mindset in life, goals in life. But to the extent that we both have torn ACL in our knees! Come to think of this crazy world haha! Half-astonished that even in physical pain we got mutual situation, lol!
Aside from being a coffee-lover. Deep talks over coffee is the calmest part of my life. It’s my relaxation. It’s where I can assure I will be calm and comfortable. Well, sometimes we just dance to Tiktok challenges to forget the toxicity of the world. Talk over same sentiments and laugh to our stupidity in the past may it be in love or friends.